this post is not directed to anyone in particular, it's just me venting. so don't get offended or anything. and if you haven't read the list that's before this yet, read that. :)
i give up.
plain and simple.
im done trying to solve everyone's problems. i'm just done. i can say a million things to try and cheer people up, but people seem to be driven to feel depressed, and alone and angry and i've realized that i can't do anything about it besides listen and nod and say 'im sorry that happened' or 'look on the bright side' or something.
so if something is wrong, and you actually want to feel better, then i am here, but if your just looking for someone to feel sorry for you, or someone you can bring down, i am not the person.
if you won't let me in enough to know what is actually wrong, i cant help you.
this doesn't mean that you can't talk to me about your problems, or about what's going on in your life. it just means that, most likely, i am not going to be able to make you feel better. and im tired of feeling guilty that i can't make everyone happy. that's not my job. i have my own worries. i'll help you to the furthest extent that i can, but there's only so much i can do.
wow. that feels so much better.
i give up.
plain and simple.
im done trying to solve everyone's problems. i'm just done. i can say a million things to try and cheer people up, but people seem to be driven to feel depressed, and alone and angry and i've realized that i can't do anything about it besides listen and nod and say 'im sorry that happened' or 'look on the bright side' or something.
so if something is wrong, and you actually want to feel better, then i am here, but if your just looking for someone to feel sorry for you, or someone you can bring down, i am not the person.
if you won't let me in enough to know what is actually wrong, i cant help you.
this doesn't mean that you can't talk to me about your problems, or about what's going on in your life. it just means that, most likely, i am not going to be able to make you feel better. and im tired of feeling guilty that i can't make everyone happy. that's not my job. i have my own worries. i'll help you to the furthest extent that i can, but there's only so much i can do.
wow. that feels so much better.
posted by Cellar door at
10:02 AM
4 Comments:
I'm glad you got that out, and it is such a good thing to get out
i read somewhere that "you cant MAKE someone feel better. you can only give them the option to lift themselves up" or something like that. i cant remember the last part perfectly, but it still applies. i love you baby, and you always give me the option of lifting myself up :)
keep on keeping on,
-renee
Cavya, you rock. I remember things that you say.
A few weeks ago you said something, a bit of advice you might call it, and it's stuck with me. I remember it.
Thank you.
i don't remember what i said, but no problem.
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